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????Dear John，
????I have been seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear on what I need and desire out of a relationship.
????The conclusion I have come to is that we are too different in both our personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully live together with joy， bliss， good communication， and interaction.
????This is not about you or about me "winning or losing"， or about one of us being wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfill each other， or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit with the thought that possibly we could 'try' again， after thinking about it a lot， I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very clear that we are not the 'right' people for each other at this time in our lives.
????Please forgive yourself， and me， for any 'mistakes' we made along the way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being together... but the time has come to move on.
????So basically what I am saying is that I would like to 'cancel' my invitation for you to visit. I feel at this time， that I need to move on with my life， and having you come and visit would not serve any positive purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and open yourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe...
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????I think we both need to let go of the past， be grateful for what we had for a time， learn from our experiences， and move on from there.
????Dearest John， we have been through a lot together... I have a learned a lot about myself， as you have learnt a lot about yourself. At this point， we are both ready to graduate to the next level in a relationship...What we have learned， whether while we were together， or whether after， through looking back on how we 'operated' together， will serve us in our future relationships.
????It has been my experience， that all relationships that end are simply opening the door to another level of joy， and a better relationship built on what we have learnt in the past. So I know and trust that there is someone out there who will support you in your growth while loving you exactly the way you are... which is something that we were not doing for each other. I constantly judged and criticized you， in the same manner that you judged and criticized me... Out there is the perfect person for you that will love you and not find a single thing to criticize about you in the same way that you will not find a single thing to criticize about them... You will accept her as she is， even while seeing that she is not "perfect".
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????Please allow me the last time so call you! When you see this letter I've been on a trip back home because I know I never has no chance to say these two words with you， this is the last letter I wrote to you， at this moment my heart ached， but for the sake of your choice I still want to write this letter brimming with tears.
????In you leave me these two days I thought a lot also understand a lot， I find you just want to keep you mean there is no other hope you don't want to wrong， as you said in the monitor our family you I can assure you that there is absolutely no， right now I will never in bother you. I wish you would give me the last time we have the opportunity to， until the morning， and I said you let me understand the lost love， many people know that the lost love is hard to turn back! But even in together also can't be like before， because I love you， I still choose no longer entwine you， maybe I just a traveler in your life! I hope the afterlife I door will continue to this period of bitter love! Perhaps this love should be sweet， then think about it. Many things are all my own ignorance of mistakes... but I really don't want to break up with you， I know I am a bad temper.
????Countless times to quarrel with you for little things， can be a little absurd， looking back now forget it， all over now ` everything in the past with the wind. Forget may be a good thing! Hope everyone happy even break up will break up， I know this is easier said than done. It's hard to do! When I think about being with you together happy tears can strike down. Let it gone， lost love heart let time slowly wound it forget perhaps very difficult， but I will learn to slowly try! I hope one day， I really can really learn， instead of sad. Meeting you was fate of traction， leave you may be hit the doomed， perhaps the fate will become more! The past sweet aftertaste now can only use crying instead， everything can only cause destruction in miss yourself!
????With all my happiness and hope to be with you is nearly eight months， many others did not experience the pain.. We have learned. Again the injustice of the deepest heart， tears of failure， is a very simple word "love" to cover. Maybe I have to break up to you to say， maybe I don't believe that we have come to an end; But your rude words made me sad， maybe everybody is sad， but I think it's time we say break up to you. Today we finally have the courage to face the regret of the past， I have the courage to face you should be， in addition to regret in the face of such result can only say that I don't know about you.
????I think with you together of days is happy and happy， is you let me know what call love? How to care about a person， love a person? How to be a good boyfriend? How to make a girlfriend happy? All this is all you taught me， thank you for let me know the many， many I did not know and done before， in my memory， you also once many times said broke up with me， how many times we are through the tears， in retrospect， also many times with you quarrel， I am really sorry you， let you involvement， let every time you are very pain， also let your character became mania and throw things， I know I in your eyes is always a long small children don't mature， because of my ignorance and immature for heart and tired.
????Maybe I said promise， for you never not achieve them， but for me I have to go to do， but a commitment not to implement two or three days， after all， the relationship to the future happiness， and may also be because our personality are caused by the impatient， has already passed， however， will not start again from today， because you are tired， tired you should let go， have a word， love you will make you happy， you and I can't find happiness together， only leave you let you find happiness in the heart， this is also one of the biggest cost love， though you find happiness is no longer I， but I still want to bless you， hope you later life happy happy， also wish you good health! If love a person is so silently selfless dedication， whether spiritual or material， all I want， that is why I will change my position， for the sake of your happiness， I will accept， because the reality is cruel， love is selfish! It's hard to avoid damage.
????I was a boy of reluctance to debt， more reluctant to carry debt， so I don't want to see you sacrifice their all stay with me， do you think is the love me， but you forget that I love you too， don't want to see you more sacrifice. Leave only heard silence， in addition to silence to leave you I still have what choice? There is a love called to give up in the world and fall in love with you is a wrong， but I have no regret. It is good to have memories with you my life. I will be happy， so you rest assured， because my life's biggest sorrow is away from you， again sad again difficult?
????Take good care of yourself， if you forget me you will happy， so forget me， don't blame you， you always like a child let me love and chi， now that I can't give you happiness， so I have to let go hold your hand， my can let you go looking for happiness...
????Baby， again say to you that the two profound words， it could also be the last time I have ever told you so， I'm gone...
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????Enthusiasm is true love，isn't it ?As you said so.OK，different people have different ideas.And there won't be any answer true or false.
????I always hold it to myself that toleration，understanding，trusting can lead to true love.Anyway wateriness is the right truth!Life won't always turn out to be romantic and ideal!We must face the reality!
????Well ，this is all what I want to talk to you!Maybe one day you will find something in what I have said.
????You don't need to feel guilty now!
????You have at last found your princess ，your true love ，that is a good thing!Congratulations!
????What I can say is just best wishes to you.
????I have given up so much for you! I have lost myself!So much so that I even don't know my own feeling!Maybe sepration can help me to find back the real myself!Heartbreaking because I have paid out so much wholeheartedly!
????Let me alone then.I need some time to calm down ， think it over well and heal the wound!
????Finally，Gook luck to you ! And bless you that your dream will come true!
????I sent an E-mail that night.That was what I felt after you told me the truth.
????If you want to know more，you can download and read it.
????Whether we can still be good friend，I am not sure.That isn't a question that I can answer off the cuff .Time will justify that!
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????First of all，I want to make out that you don't necessarily apologize to me.Well if apology could make any sense，there would not be any court in the world.Of course， it dosen't mean that I want to take you to court.But you should know what you have said and done to me really make me sick!You have deeply hurt me!You have hurt a girl's self-esteem!
????Maybe she is more charming，more capable，and more excellent than me.I am not sure.But I suppose so.If not ，I think you should not break your word!
????These two days，I look back upon what have happened to us in the passing year.I felt really heartrending .Though it wasn't a nightmare，it couldn't be a beautiful dream.
????When I was still in ZH， I held the notion to myself if we both try our best，trust each other，we could reach a happy end.
????But when I came to GZ，I found all things didn't turn out to be what I had wished to.
????Even you ，I can say，were quite differnt.We didn't have much in common any more.We have differnt education background，differnt lifestyle，and the most important，we don't have the same faith.
????You are active， exhilarating， and outstanding .All these character are what I appreciate.
????However，you are not so considerate.You always took it for granted that I could accept what you thought should be right.Have you ever imagined that I also have my own opinion?!I am not so dependent as you maybe think I should be!I don't want to waste time justifying that.Some times I couldn't bear your words and behavior，and I could feel the great pressure to stay with you .But I always thought that I could live up with that.It was just a matter of time.However it won't be possible any more.
????You have the right to make your own choice.I won't reproach you for that. All of us just want to aspire after the best ，don't we?
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